Tuesday, January 17, 2012

The Holidays

Since our holiday wreath is still up and wrapped in a string of Christmas lights that turns on automatically from 4pm until midnight, I decided that it’s not too late to write about the holidays.

We lit two sets of candles for Hanukkah – the real one in the kitchen and the electric one at the window next to the Christmas wreath. On the first night Scott really wanted to make latkes, but we had just come back from NY the night before and didn’t have time to shred potatoes. He scoured the internet for a Jewish deli and found two in a 15 mile radius. Alas, Geiberman’s was closed and Katz New York Deli did not actually exist. We were starved and missing our scrumptious meal in Dallas the year before. Out of desperation I suggested that we go to Golden Corral. I figured they would at least have hash browns which would be as close as we could get to a latke that night.

Golden Corral did not have hash browns but they did have fried potatoes in various forms. I would like to think that we observed the Hanukkah tradition as least in spirit but in reality we were both quite disgusted with our dining experience.

That night we exchanged gifts for Hanukkah. I got to pick one from the four that Scott had been amassing over the past few weeks. I felt guilty as the only gift I had for him to open was a rolled up tube of computer printout in gift wrap. The rest was on its way via UPS aka Santa who thankfully only required a 2-day notice.


The computer printout was a surprise that contained two tickets to the Panthers game, which was one of the things that Scott had wanted to do as a local. The game was on the day before Christmas, and we walked the 1.5 miles to the stadium. Despite seats that were almost as far up in height, we had a good view of the game and saw the touchdowns that led the Panthers to victory. I was happy about the win but I was more excited about the blue and white Panther paw that was sprayed on my cheek. Walking around with the glittery paw on my cheek made me feel like a proper Charlottean.


Some of the other gifts included a slow cooker, a slow cooker cookbook, fuzzy slippers, pajama pants, and a tea strainer. It might be the start of a dangerous trend. “Look honey, I got you a food processor for Valentine’s Day!" I can just see it.

On Christmas day we took a leisurely walk around the neighborhood where Scott took me on a tour of shuttered factories, abandoned warehouses, a toxic creek and plots of land overgrown with weeds and strewn with rusty pickup trucks. We walked past what looked like mobile homes on cinder blocks before venturing into a neighborhood where, with the exception of a couple of renovated homes, houses looked rundown and where a vintage Jaguar missing its rear wheel was left for what looked like its final resting place. No one besides us was on the streets and when it started to get dark, I called an end to our neighborhood exploration.

On our way out we came upon a hill that overlooked Uptown Charlotte. Instead of the traditional green and red, the iconic Duke Energy Tower was lit up in rainbow colors. We speculated on whether that was to resemble Christmas lights or the rainbow flag, and we decided that it was the former.

Of course, no Christmas is complete without a gingerbread house. I am smarter now than to attempt making one from scratch - which had resulted in collapsing roofs and gooey messes in the past - and used a fully equipped kit instead. Scott had no interest in the building process but did participate in its destruction moments later to satisfy his tastebuds.

We had a mellow New Year’s Eve at home with a few friends where the most spirited conversation revolved around whether a fire with flames or amber was a better fire.

Early in the evening we were huddling around the mobile fire pit in our corner of the parking lot when the debate started. Tony liked the big flames that rose up and licked the air, while Dave preferred smolders from wood that burned into charcoal. Much discussion went into building the perfect teepee of firewood and concerns were voiced when not enough air was let in to fuel a bigger fire. Scott stayed out of the debate but stoked the fire in a few strategic moves to address the concerns.

If not for the Justin wine bottles, stemmed wine glasses and the charcuterie and cheese platter, we could have easily been mistaken as hobos.

The rest of the evening was spent examining our latest slow cooker creation: lemon garlic chicken with artichokes. There was also more wine, more friends, and bubblies to ring in the New Year.

Choosing which station to watch the countdown brought another bout of debate. We settled on several minutes of a Cold Play concert before realizing it had nothing to do with New Years. After fumbling around for a couple more minutes, we found Dick Clark, and all was well.

In those 10 seconds, seeing the familiar streets of New York, I was awash in a wave of nostalgia. But seconds later, being in our new home and surrounded by new friends, I was filled with the sense of a new beginning.

I hope everyone had a great beginning to 2012. Happy New Year!

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Backlog

OK, so the once a week update didn't really pan out and I'm seriously backlogged.

There's still a lot to tell you about: our December visit to New York, a Christmas Eve day surprise for Scott, our neighborhood exploration on Christmas, fire on New Years Eve, Crock-Pot creations, antiquing in Waxhaw, and an update on Dave's cats.

I told Scott that we have to stop doing things so I can have more time to write, but he vetoed the idea.

So, stay tuned and I'll post when I can. Happy New Year!

Asheville

It was our first Christmas in Billy Graham country and we wanted to embrace the holiday spirit by visiting the Biltmore Estate in Asheville, a couple of hours’ drive from Charlotte.

The Biltmore is a castle in the mountains built by George Vanderbilt in 1895. The main house has 255 rooms and the rest of the 8,000 acre property includes a winery, gardens, an inn and restaurants. For the holiday season the whole house lights up with Christmas decorations and is an especially pretty sight at night.

We stopped by the winery first which is touted as the most visited winery in the U.S. Unfortunately that had nothing to do with how good the wines were, and the dozen or so that we tasted ranged from awful to tolerable. But I was thankful for the little crackers which I gobbled up between sips to hold me over until dinner.

We drove through miles of rolling green hills to get to the main house. I imagined myself a Jane Austen character riding on horseback, picnicking with ladies in flouncy dresses and parasols while giggling about prospective suitors. Suddenly our 1994 Acura didn’t feel old enough as a mode of transportation.

The main attraction was the house. Every door, molding, trim and ceiling was carved with wood or painted by renowned artists. Every room was unique and served a different purpose: the 38-seat formal dining room with three fireplaces and a pipe organ several stories high; a breakfast room with leather embossed walls and two original Renoirs; the smoking room and gun room for the gentlemen; separate his and hers bedrooms which Scott advocates (and which I veto); and the recreation area which includes a two-lane bowling alley. Mr. Vanderbuit would not have approved of our multi-purpose one-room studio apartments in NY.

There was an exhibit which showed preservationists painstakingly restoring the Louis XV rooms. They hand stamped wallpaper, cleaned vases and antiques with Q-tips, and hand loomed silk wall coverings. It was almost porn for Scott and I could barely drag him away from the silky fabric.

Asheville is known for its hippie culture unusual for the South. We didn’t experience what that meant but I did notice a Himalayan restaurant and a tattoo parlor which looked out of place from the otherwise touristy downtown. And full of tourists it was. One night we were told by a restaurant that the wait for a table would be an hour long, and another that it’d be 35 minutes. It was as if New York chased us all the way here.

And just like in NY, we found a frozen yogurt shop - the Tutti Fruitti - run by Asians. The shopkeeper’s eyes widened when she saw me and was so excited to find out that I was also from Hong Kong that she just about climbed over the register to talk to us.

Our favorite finds happened outside of Asheville. Our friend introduced us to Troyers’ Amish Market where most things were homemade and organic – breads, granola, pasta, pie fillings, non-homogenized milk and eggs too big to fit in a standard carton from chickens raised behind the store. They were also half the price than at our farmer’s market next door. I wish I could relocate them to our backyard/parking lot, though our neighborhood cats would probably get to the chickens pretty fast.

In the nearby town of Black Mountain, we discovered the Artisan Gourmet Market – a coffee shop, wine bar, deli and gourmet market all in one. All the sauces, wine and meats looked amazing and the seating area was cozy and welcoming. We agreed that next time we come back to the area, we would skip Asheville altogether and just come here to dine and shop.

We only planned a two-day trip and didn’t want to leave Asheville without experiencing the mountains. So despite a late start one evening, Scott, our friend and I went for a hike in the Blue Ridge Parkway. The road was closed for traffic, so we parked and walked along the empty road. We were alone in the waning light and Scott did his best to spook us by recounting movies where hapless hikers were attacked by bears, vampires or psychos with rifles.

About a couple of miles into our walk we approached a tunnel. By now it was almost dark. I was a little hesitant but we walked into the opening anyway and soon found ourselves in pitch darkness. I could hear the others walking and talking but all I could see was the hazy bluish light at the far end of the tunnel. For a while, the light didn’t look to be getting any bigger and I started to think what if we never get to the end at all. It was the most eerie experience ever. Luckily, we all made it out of the mountain without encountering bats, werewolves, and other blood sucking creatures.

The next day, I stayed in the warm cabin while Scott and his friend snuck into a no-trespassing private property for a hike. The friend returned and reported that Scott stayed to hike some more. I got nervous that there would be hunters mistaking him for a deer. It dawned on me that a closed road or a no trespassing sign actually meant "come hither" to Scott.

It's a good thing he lived to rave about the views up there. Trespassing or not, next time I might join them.